It is common the parents to make comparison enters notes of the children, ' ' of the someone it is better that its, you are not with shame? ' ' or ' ' the someone only deserves because it studies and you me of problema' ' , thus the psychological one of ' ' outro' ' he goes taking storing these comments and causing damages auto-they esteem of the individual. It reflects in its social behavior. The psychological violence is a relation of being able different between adults endowed with authority and children and adolescents whom if they judge dominant on the dominated ones. This power is exerted through attitudes of found arbitrary control in the seio of the family, of the society and also pertaining to school, he is typical ' ' I obey because quero' ' , of verbal aggressions, of blackmails, extreme rules, of threats, humilhaes, depreciation, disqualification, rejection, isolation, requirement of inadequate ethical behaviors or above of the capacities and of economic or sexual exploration that much is seen in eaves of roads. In the school the violence more is declared, but it is an environment where it can controlled and be eradicated with the effort of all. Professors already mobilize themselves in this aspect, unhappyly of the beginning of century XXI for here, much recently and thanks to the prominence of the media on the subject in recent years. The case of Royal is not the only one, is most violent without a doubt, but it is not isolated case. The words said with sarcasm or indifference, a comment badly placed, an untied trick of bad taste, piadinhas that they degrade can and are considered Buling.
However when this happens in house, the society in a general way and mainly in classroom it is hour of the correction. If the professor or others exactly finds favour of this situation is collaborating so that they continue these harmful psychological violncias. The attacked individual necessary of support, needs to feel that he is not rejected or reason of chacota of the others. Simple action and of immense result. The parents need to be intent what they speak and with the comparisons that nothing help. They change such comments for incentive and they will open a better perspective for the children. He is of that they need and not of somebody that always criticizes.